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Rules for a Knight Hardcover – Illustrated, November 10, 2015
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An unforgettable fable about a father's journey and a timeless guide to life's many questions—from Ethan Hawke, four-time Academy Award nominee, twice for writing and twice for acting.
A knight, fearing he may not return from battle, writes a letter to his children in an attempt to leave a record of all he knows. In a series of ruminations on solitude, humility, forgiveness, honesty, courage, grace, pride, and patience, he draws on the ancient teachings of Eastern and Western philosophy, and on the great spiritual and political writings of our time. His intent: to give his children a compass for a journey they will have to make alone, a short guide to what gives life meaning and beauty.
- Print length192 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherKnopf
- Publication dateNovember 10, 2015
- Dimensions4.24 x 0.71 x 6.28 inches
- ISBN-100307962334
- ISBN-13978-0307962331
- Lexile measure830L
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—The New Yorker
"Hawke (Ash Wednesday) pens a heartwarming, medieval tale on ethics . . . an easy and endearing read, perfect for young and old children alike."
—Publishers Weekly
"Philosophy lovers will enjoy the Eastern and Western philosophical musings, but everyone will enjoy the touching storyline."
—Metro
"Hawke's book of wisdom declaring life to be a gift should be pondered."
—Booklist
"Entertaining and insightful."
—The Buffalo News
"A deliciously digestible read. . . . Read this book. You’ll be reminded of just how powerful simple gestures can be when they’re fueled by passion and purpose."
—The Free Lance-Star
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- Publisher : Knopf
- Publication date : November 10, 2015
- Edition : Illustrated
- Language : English
- Print length : 192 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0307962334
- ISBN-13 : 978-0307962331
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 4.24 x 0.71 x 6.28 inches
- Lexile measure : 830L
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- Reviewed in the United States on May 6, 2025Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseThis novel impressed me beyond expectations. It was highly recommended by a close friend, but I had no idea how meaningful this book would become to me. It’s a pretty easy read (as intended by the author) but it hits home, and has become my #1 most recommended book. Anyone that reads it will absolutely love it.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 2, 2024Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseI would recommend this book for anyone who wants to learn about the rules that knights tried to live their lives by. I’m a world where a lot of people are seeking a way through life, well, live by these rules, they are told in wonderful short stories, each one explaining through story the individual rules that a knight should live by and why. Great gift for a young person. I would highly recommend this book!
- Reviewed in the United States on December 26, 2024Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseWell written and beautifully put together. Make it a habit of gifting this to those you know and love.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 18, 2016Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseWhen I was nineteen, my father visited me at school and bought me a copy of Ethan Hawke's second novel, ASH WEDNESDAY. He'd read a good review and thought I'd like it. He was right. I loved it, and I still love it. It's not a literary masterpiece, but it's a great story about facing one's immaturity and making the decision to step up and become an adult or not. I've reread it many times. Because I loved it, I read Hawke's first novel, THE HOTTEST STATE, which I related to at 19 but now read as juvenile and simplistic. Nevertheless, I knew Ethan Hawke from his film work and I was impressed with his writing. He co-wrote the scripts for the absolutely astonishing Before Sunset and Before Midnight. So, it is safe to say that I've been waiting anxiously for a new book by Mr. Hawke. I was hoping for a novel, something that built upon the talent evident in ASH WEDNESDAY; but Hawke wrote a fictional diary that serves as a parable and is meant to be read as one might read THE ART OF WAR or the TAO TE CHING or Aurelius's MEDITATIONS (and no, I am not putting it on the same shelf as those philosophical classics).
This is the story of a knight who knows that he will likely perish in a looming battle and has sat down to put on paper everything he has learned about life from his own mentors and experiences. This is the thread connecting each of the chapters and it is enjoyable if sparse and simple. In each chapter, the knight tackles a different virtue or character trait, using anecdotes to illustrate points and instruct his readers in how to live a good and honorable life.
My hat is off to Hawke for attempting such a book, especially as an actor who would surely face even more scrutiny for daring to have an interest in another art form. It is inherently dangerous to write moral instruction. The author can seem pretentious or pedantic and it is a testament to Hawke's steady hand that RULES FOR A KNIGHT never comes off as either. Is he breaking new ground and giving us the key to life we've all been looking for? No. Most of what's in here can be found in any number of similar texts that are or are not fictional. But Hawke presents familiar lessons in unique ways, offering clever illustrative stories. I found myself underlining sentences or paragraphs that said something I'd heard before but put it so beautifully or freshly that I was moved to mark them for future reference. I have to say, that is no small accomplishment.
No adult is going to read this and be swept away by plot or character. Know that going in. You'll read this with great pleasure, though. I'd describe it as something like a daily reader, something you might keep on an end table and read a random chapter from once in a while. It's also a book that can, and is largely intended to, be read to and with children. My son is six and is probably a little too young for it, but I still think I'll give it a try with him. Whether he fully grasps it now or not, I know that I'll read it with him in the future and that we'll probably return to it frequently together. It's not beyond the realm of possibility that I might turn to a chapter of this book to help him with some future problem.
I want to note the lovely, minimalist design of the book as a physical object; and, along with that, it cannot be left unsaid that Ryan Hawke's illustrations prefacing each chapter are lovely and tonally perfect for the material.
RULES FOR A KNIGHT would make a good book for yourself or an excellent gift for adult friends (with or without children), nieces and nephews, grandkids, groomsmen, etc. It's rather universal in its appeal and seems the kind of text just about anyone would like to have on their shelf.
- Reviewed in the United States on November 18, 2018Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseA code of honor laced within touching tales and easy reading. Just about everything you need to know about how to grow up to be a good person, or a knight, is tucked away in these pages. As a grown-up, I found myself re-reading passages several times, thinking about how I could further integrate these themes in my own life.
Love, loss, friendship, life,death, all this is covered and so much more. This is a perfect gift for anyone who has young children, boy and girls! Ethan Hawke does an excellent job making the rules of Knighthood applicable to all. I already passed along my copy to a little boy who will need it and will probably be picking up another one for myself soon!
As far as the binding, beautiful. I'm a sucker for a solid hardcover book and this book delivers. It's small, so it fits in the palm of your hand or your back pocket easily. One might also say it would fit perfectly into the hands of a child. I should also mention that 100% of the royalties from this book go to organizations that help kids overcome learning disabilities.
I cannot recommend this book enough. All can learn something from this tome of tales, child and grownup alike. A world with a few more knights is a world I could love to live in.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 24, 2020Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseIn the book, The Life of the World to Come, or another printing The Life of the World to Come, the author Dom Anscar Vonier speaks about the life we are destined for as “the true life of this world made eternal, immortal, carried to its highest potentialities.” Here, author Ethan Hawke speaks about the lofty life that’s attributed to a Knight and gives us instruction on how to live a noble life, therefore achieving the highest potentialities of earthly human living. It seems as if the loftiness that the life of a Knight achieves in this world is akin to the beginning of what Abbot Vonier says is transformed to the eternal, immortal life that is to come. He says that this life could hardly be enjoyed by someone not aiming for it, as by force. He says “One must be pure of heart to love the vision of heaven.” This purity of heart and its kindred virtues are alluded to, page after page. Obviously, this is good instruction for anyone to live a good life, to be happy in this life and eternally in the next.
5.0 out of 5 starsIn the book, The Life of the World to Come, or another printing The Life of the World to Come, the author Dom Anscar Vonier speaks about the life we are destined for as “the true life of this world made eternal, immortal, carried to its highest potentialities.” Here, author Ethan Hawke speaks about the lofty life that’s attributed to a Knight and gives us instruction on how to live a noble life, therefore achieving the highest potentialities of earthly human living. It seems as if the loftiness that the life of a Knight achieves in this world is akin to the beginning of what Abbot Vonier says is transformed to the eternal, immortal life that is to come. He says that this life could hardly be enjoyed by someone not aiming for it, as by force. He says “One must be pure of heart to love the vision of heaven.” This purity of heart and its kindred virtues are alluded to, page after page. Obviously, this is good instruction for anyone to live a good life, to be happy in this life and eternally in the next.The Path of a Lofty Life
Reviewed in the United States on May 24, 2020
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- Reviewed in the United States on May 7, 2023Format: HardcoverVerified PurchaseThe back story of the Hawke family in medieval times when the men were knights. The "letter" penned by a Father to his young children for future parenting advice as he was certain he will die in an upcoming conflict became this book. 12 life lessons wonderfully crafted into chapters that each have a parable and beautifully drawn image of a bird. Most appropriate as the author's (actor Ethan Hawke's), lineage comes from the medieval vocation known as "hawking" or training raptors for use as hunters of small game and/or an eye in the sky encircling bigger game.
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OparazzoReviewed in Germany on May 23, 2016
5.0 out of 5 stars Gebrauchsanweisung für ein aufrechtes Leben
Es brauchte nur edle Vorfahren, einen unaufgeräumten Keller und ein wenig Finderglück, und schon könnten einem die "Rules for a Knight" in den Schoß fallen. Wenn diese Voraussetzungen fehlen, muss man wenigstens eine Menge gelesen haben. Ethan Hawke, berühmter Schauspieler und nicht ganz so berühmter Autor, hat, unbeschadet seiner Editor's Note, eine Menge gelesen - die Liste von Acknowledgements ist lang und illuster und führt neben den üblichen Verdächtigen wie Nelson Mandela und Martin Luther King auch einige unübliche wie Laurence Fishburne oder River Phoenix, aus deren Ideen er ein Buch destilliert hat für Eltern und für Jugendliche (beiderlei Geschlechts, was vielleicht auch nicht unwichtig ist zu erwähnen).
Ein Ritter fürchtet, die Schlacht, in die er am nächsten Tag ziehen wird, nicht zu überleben. Der Gedanke an seine Kinder lässt ihn nicht schlafen, und so setzt er sich hin und schreibt sein Vermächtnis auf. All das, was in seinen Augen einen Ritter zum Ritter macht, zusammengefasst in zwei Kernsätzen, die auch auf dem Buchrücken stehen: "Never announce you are a knight, simply behave as one" und "You are better than no one, and no one is better than you", die Quintessenz dessen, was ihm sein geliebter Großvater durch Wort und Tat beigebracht hatte.
Das mag jetzt ein wenig bemüht und moralinsauer klingen, ist es aber nicht. Es ist auch nicht kitschig. Es ist genau das Buch, das ein liebevoller Vater schreibt in dem Bestreben, dass seine Kinder zu glücklichen, zufriedenen und respektierten Menschen heranwachsen, ganz gleich ob Ethan Hawke heute oder Sir Thomas Lemuel Hawke vor über 500 Jahren. Dass es für einen Ritter von Nachteil sein kann, in der Nacht vor einer Schlacht zu schreiben anstatt zu schlafen, ist leider eine andere Sache und mit Sicherheit ungesünder, als am nächsten Drehtag mit roten Augen aufzukreuzen.
- Amazon CustomerReviewed in the United Kingdom on April 8, 2021
5.0 out of 5 stars Great reading and learning for young and old
I absolutely love this book and have read it many times to my boys.
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riccardo vianelloReviewed in Italy on January 8, 2020
5.0 out of 5 stars Regole di formazione bellissime!
Libro meraviglioso. Mi ha fatto venire voglia di tradurlo. Infatti l'ho tradotto. Ora tocca trovare qualcuno che pubblichi la mia versione ☺️
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Brenda PaladiniReviewed in France on February 29, 2016
4.0 out of 5 stars Bien
Tres Bon livre j'ai beaucoup aimé
C est Clair , concis , et très bien écrit
Ce livre Donne des bonnes valeurs pour la vie
- Luis Antonio del Valle Torregrosa Martinez de la FuenteReviewed in Australia on July 2, 2023
5.0 out of 5 stars Learn and live the Values of a Knight
Reading this in my early 50's harks a reassurance that I have lived my life as best I can... notwithstanding there are many years left, and this tale definitely gives me faith and scope for an even more productive and fruitful life's endeavour into my future. More importantly, I plan to give this book to each of my grandsons (three) when they turn 13 (before the rot of society gets to them) so they can steer towards what is true, just and honourable amidst this world and life.
There is only one niggling detail, and this has nothing to do with the historical basis of the tale, or even the scholastic and academic research that went into this book; there is an account relating to the Duchess of York, with walks in the garden and 'cups of tea'. If we are to believe that this tale takes place between 1480 onwards, I'm sad to confirm that 'Tea' was not brought into Europe until the mid 1600's. I'm no historian (I'll leave that to Dan Jones) but after some quick and simple internet research, this fact was confirmed.
Thanks to Ethan Hawke for uncovering such a historical tale and for the academic background thrown into this remarkable piece. I shall reread it from time to time, just to remind myself of how to live like a Knight.
Luis Antonio del Valle Torregrosa Martinez de la FuenteLearn and live the Values of a Knight
Reviewed in Australia on July 2, 2023
There is only one niggling detail, and this has nothing to do with the historical basis of the tale, or even the scholastic and academic research that went into this book; there is an account relating to the Duchess of York, with walks in the garden and 'cups of tea'. If we are to believe that this tale takes place between 1480 onwards, I'm sad to confirm that 'Tea' was not brought into Europe until the mid 1600's. I'm no historian (I'll leave that to Dan Jones) but after some quick and simple internet research, this fact was confirmed.
Thanks to Ethan Hawke for uncovering such a historical tale and for the academic background thrown into this remarkable piece. I shall reread it from time to time, just to remind myself of how to live like a Knight.
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