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A Billion Wicked Thoughts: What the World's Largest Experiment Reveals About Human Desire Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

4.4 out of 5 stars 935 ratings

Informed by 18,000 interviews and bold insight from neuroscientists Sai Gaddam and Ogi Ogas, this groundbreaking study will likely rock many people’s perceptions of what stimulates males and females. The surprising results not only demonstrate people’s needs, but the needs of people’s mates as well.

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Listening Length 8 hours and 59 minutes
Author Sai Goddam, Ogi Ogas
Narrator Andrew Garman
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Audible.com Release Date August 15, 2011
Publisher Recorded Books
Program Type Audiobook
Version Unabridged
Language English
ASIN B005HBI67Q
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Customers find the book insightful and thoroughly researched, with one noting how data mining porn searches offers valuable insights into human sexuality. Moreover, the writing style is easy to read, and customers find it amusing. However, the book receives mixed feedback regarding accuracy, with several customers pointing out glaring inaccuracies. Additionally, the pacing is criticized for being repetitive and boring, and one customer describes it as mostly hype.

66 customers mention "Enlightened"60 positive6 negative

Customers find the book enlightening, praising its thorough research and insightful content.

"...wiring" Case, but for the most part, it's all about learning The interpersonal skills to have safe connections, While dealing directly with..." Read more

"...and ambiguity on the matter of human sexuality, conveying ideas through bracing, hard data...." Read more

"...which the conclusions of this book are based are some of the best sources to get real, unvarnished glimpses into male and female sexual psyches:..." Read more

"Sexuality is fascinating, but largely hidden away from curious minds for obvious reasons...." Read more

49 customers mention "Readability"49 positive0 negative

Customers find the book readable and enjoyable, with one customer noting that non-fiction has never been so fun.

"...It's clever, entertaining and informational. This is a must-read for any sex geek...." Read more

"...But all in all, quite an interesting book, that I would recommend to anybody (a bit on the expensive for an e-book thoug)." Read more

"...who loved the data and me, who loves the psychology, it was a fun and informative read...." Read more

"...They are also lively, funny, startling, and always interesting...." Read more

19 customers mention "Sexuality"19 positive0 negative

Customers find the book interesting as an exploration of human sexuality, with one customer noting how data mining porn searches provides insights, while another highlights how it analyzes romantic novels to explore women's sexual desire.

"...shared with the authors by private enterprises, and all the data is completely anonymous...." Read more

"...this entire book in only a few sittings because it talks about sub-topics about sexuality that most people don't discuss, let alone research or dive..." Read more

"...Finally, I found the research analysis applied to fetishes, and other forms of sexuality besides the mainstream type – Oh, and of course, LGBQ Issues..." Read more

"...The authors also give a brief, engaging history of sex research, which has been contested since its very creation...." Read more

14 customers mention "Ease of reading"14 positive0 negative

Customers find the book easy to read and wonderfully written, with one customer noting it includes relatable examples and analogies that make it accessible to readers of any level.

"...Not to mention, the authors take research and make it relatable for readers of any level. It's clever, entertaining and informational...." Read more

"...only the most concise study to date in this area but one that's very easy to read and quite entertaining...." Read more

"Loved the writing and easy-to-understand examples/analogies...." Read more

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5 customers mention "Humor"5 positive0 negative

Customers find the book amusing, with one mentioning they loved "Obscene Thoughts."

"...study to date in this area but one that's very easy to read and quite entertaining...." Read more

"...They are also lively, funny, startling, and always interesting...." Read more

"...scientific, juxtaposing exactly the right amount of solid data with amusing and insightful anecdotes. I highly recommend for couples especially...." Read more

"Great data. Also loved the book Obscene Thoughts, which was similar." Read more

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Customers criticize the book's accuracy, with multiple reviews pointing out glaring inaccuracies and suspect conclusions throughout the text.

"...If a basic fact cannot be presented with accuracy, can inferences and conclusions then be lent any real weight?..." Read more

"...uses them as proof of what women want and desire and it's wholly inaccurate for many women...." Read more

"...his own assumptions on a subject that is still quite unexplored an mysterious." Read more

"This is not an academic book. This is not a book that explains behavior...." Read more

4 customers mention "Pacing"0 positive4 negative

Customers find the pacing of the book repetitive and boring.

"...There a bit repetitive at times, but I must say that every time I would tell myself – "okay, I get the idea… I think I'm going to stop..." Read more

"Sort of boring, mostly one sided talking about men, some interesting tid bits but nothing mind blowing that you didn't already know if you gave it..." Read more

"SO much data, but not much information. I feel it was repetitive and could have been condensed to a few chapters...." Read more

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3 customers mention "Hype"0 positive3 negative

Customers express disappointment with the hype surrounding the book, with one noting it's not particularly informative.

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I guess there's a first for everything.... book binding completely falling apart. Very hard to keep the pages in order, let alone have any semblance of a proper book. Amazon makes it IMPOSSIBLE to get through to anyone, let alone rectify the situation so here I am posting. That aside, the book seems very interesting, but it's distracting to be reading something falling apart. It will be hard to go back and ever reference
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  • Reviewed in the United States on June 10, 2011
    Format: HardcoverVerified Purchase
    Several excellent descriptive reviews, especially that of Rob Hardy, have already appeared here, so there's no point in my repeating that information. (My general assessment of this book can be found above, in the blurb I wrote for the publisher.) Instead, I'd like to provide some additional information for open-minded readers without an ax to grind who are trying to decide whether to buy the book.

    Before Ogas and Gaddam began their research for this book they conducted a survey of an online community of slash fiction fans. ("Slash fiction" is a kind of romance fiction--often very sexually graphic--that is typically written by and for women, in which both lovers are men.) Some slash fans who participated in this survey, or did not participate but came to learn of it, strongly objected to it. These fans are the source of the 1-star reviews, which claim or imply that A Billion Wicked Thoughts was based on, or derived from, this survey.

    I haven't seen the survey and therefore can't comment on its merits or shortcomings, but for the purposes of this review it doesn't matter because (please pardon my caps) THE SURVEY HAD NOTHING WHATEVER TO DO WITH A BILLION WICKED THOUGHTS. How do I know this? Because I read the book. Why don't the 1-star reviewers know this? Because they didn't read the book. All the data used in this book was obtained from publicly available sources or shared with the authors by private enterprises, and all the data is completely anonymous.

    Furthermore, the slash fan community is by no means uniformly hostile to A Billion Wicked Thoughts. In fact, the Foreword was written by Catherine Salmon, who, for more than two decades, has been a member of the slash community as a reader of slash, a writer of slash, a participant in online slash discussion groups, a slash conference participant, and the co-author of a book about slash (I am the second author).

    I would also like to respond to some specific claims made by 1-star reviewers:

    > These two "scientists" were actually asked by the institution they claimed to represent to cease and desist from using their name in relation to this non-IRB approved "experiment." (Skittish)

    > Other raised their concerns with the institution the writers claimed y to be affiliated with, and discovered that their claims of affiliation were made up. (H. West)

    > The very college the two writers worked for pulled their accreditation of the research and disavowed the study. (Jess Idres)

    > One of the people at Boston Uni who was there when they were suspended for their 'research' has published a short expose on Kindle. (J. Davitt)

    Ogas and Gaddam have replied to these sorts of charges in a Q&A on the Freakonomics web site (please see "Comments" for web address).

    For further clarification of these matters I emailed Dr. Ogas and received the following reply:

    "There was no cease and desist from BU, no reprimand or sanction of any kind. This is a complete fabrication. (Where is the evidence? We still have our Boston University websites and email addresses.) Sai was a working post-doc at Boston University and I still retained student status when we represented ourselves as being at Boston University. When we were no longer affiliated with BU we stopped claiming affiliation. We never claimed BU affiliation with the survey or used BU resources. There never was any "accreditation" of the research (I don't even know what that means) so it could not have been pulled. BU never avowed any research, so how could it have been disavowed? We openly state that we intentionally conducted our research independent of any institutional support. We never requested any institutional support."

    I have chaired the Human Subjects Committee (a.k.a. Institutional Review Board, or IRB) at The University of California at Santa Barbara for the last 25 years, and I have no idea what "accreditation" or "avowal" mean in this context.

    I found Dr. Ogas's response to J. Davitt's Kindle charge especially interesting and, I confess, amusing.

    "About the Kindle "expose" by a "colleague" from BU. We created that ourselves as a "honeypot" to ensnare the hostile slash fans. We crafted a ridiculous anonymous document that claimed all kinds of outrageous stuff about ourselves and filled it with nonsensical neuroscience mumbo jumbo that purports to explain why our science is wrong (like "there can be no AND gate in the female hypothalamus because it lacks lateral neurons"). We hoped that the protesters would start citing it as gospel and then we could reveal that we were the authors (the first letters of one of the sentences reads "ogi and sai wrote this satire"), demonstrating that these protesters are relying on anonymous, fabricated, unverified smears. Unfortunately, our publisher insisted we take it down, which we did."

    I hope this information is useful to potential readers of A Billion Wicked Thoughts.
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  • Reviewed in the United States on September 11, 2017
    Format: KindleVerified Purchase
    This book demonstrates one of the strangest, yet most powerful applications of applying big data to search platforms. Instead of compiling an incoherent collection of facts and analytics on sex-related searches, the author ties information of his investigation into a larger evolutionary psychology framework. I read this entire book in only a few sittings because it talks about sub-topics about sexuality that most people don't discuss, let alone research or dive into understanding the (often counter-intuitive or only retrospectively obvious) explanations for why they arise. Most facts that I uncovered were fascinating and novel to me due to the rarity of this data being analyzed in popular statistics.

    It's incredible how much about human nature can be inferred through a few keystrokes and reading patterns, and long as you aggregate information into sizable data sets. You'll learn that women have a higher tendency to ruminate over emotional situations and can do so with speed. Women prefer men that are in professions associated with status and confidence e.g. romantic novels seldom mention blue-collar workers. In Romance novels written in the 1970s and 1980s, the hero in the story would be sexually aggressive - the book tells us why women's sophisticated machinery to look for cues in partners like security don't alone absolve them of such fantasies due to complex interactions of different psychological adaptations and preferences.

    I learnt a whole lot more; the variety of information covering myriad nuances of desire can get overwhelming to digest. In societies such as the Yanomamo in the Amazon where the males that mate the most are those that have the highest number of kills & the Ilongots of the Philippines that present torn heads for courtship - women don't mind the violence as long as they themselves manage to capture the alpha's tender sensitive side. In the book, the same is inferred from internet searches by women who look for fantasies that are misogynistic on the surface but offer the same final consolation or expectation to those women.

    Countless phenomenon are observed that are not necessarily obvious, such as the popularity of courtship-cue rich romance novels that thrive because in terms of neural wiring, women's physical and psychological stimulation is disconnected, and the novels provide direct access to the latter. (Researched by Meridith Chivers).

    If you're already invested time into reading popular books on evolutionary psychology such as The Evolution of Desire: likely Strategies of Human Mating or any related course textbook, you'll find a good deal of repetition - but instead of boring you, the book will likely provide information to further convince you of the empirical backings of evolutionary narratives that you're normally accustomed to.
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  • Prashant Singh
    5.0 out of 5 stars Reality
    Reviewed in India on May 3, 2025
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    This is a book closer to reality about the brains of people
  • Santiago Samaniego Sahagun
    4.0 out of 5 stars A window into the complexity of sexual desire
    Reviewed in Spain on April 23, 2023
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    Women and men are very different. Whenever evolutionary biology shows it, many women get upset. This is a very interesting reading than then again shows how different we are. Not accepting the scientific facts just makes us all frustrated and miserable. Get over it!
  • Mego
    5.0 out of 5 stars Very informative
    Reviewed in France on January 18, 2016
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    Great book very informative about the contemporary sexual preferences, the only problem is that it relies mostly on neurosciences for analysis.
  • Tom D
    5.0 out of 5 stars Fascinating data driven book about our online habits.
    Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 4, 2024
    Format: PaperbackVerified Purchase
    This book is data driven yet so readable and fascinating. The authors pored through reams and reams of data about what people search for online in the area of sex and relationships. Some of what they found is fairly predictable, i.e., men on the whole will look for explicit images and videos which get down to the act pretty quickly, while women prefer longer romantic stories in which the heroine eventually tames the bad boy (but not completely and not too quickly), but more than a few surprises are thrown in along the way.

    The way that the authors analyse all the data and speculate on how the different online behaviours of men and women fit in with theories of evolutionary psychology is really fascinating. As the authors themselves are not evolutionary psychologists, I guess it does not quite fit into the genre, but it does make a really interesting companion piece to something like The Evolution of Desire by Dr. David Buss.
  • Mr. Pseudonym
    5.0 out of 5 stars a Must read
    Reviewed in Germany on September 7, 2022
    Format: KindleVerified Purchase
    For everyone who is trying to understand their sexual relationships and fantasies. Ich have learned so many new things I would never get close to without this book! Who would have thought that bisexual women have the highest sex drive out of all women‘s sexual orientations?