Hear Yourself - Prem Rawat
Our lives are noisy and distracting, but there are ways to rediscover the peace inside you. Instead of concentrating on what skills or possessions you lack – or striving toward unrealistic goals – focus on the positive things in your life. The ground beneath you might sometimes seem fallow, but there’s an incredible world within that is full of fertile potential. Peace is possible – if you choose to let it bloom.
Actionable advice:
Release yourself from the past through forgiveness.
Sometimes, the actions of others are so cruel that we can’t bring ourselves to forgive. But the more we resist forgiveness, the more we prevent ourselves from healing. If you’re struggling to forgive someone, try to think of forgiveness in a different way. Instead of seeing it as giving in, or letting the other person win, think of it as helping you cut a negative link to the past – and liberate yourself to start anew.
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Embrace what you know, and focus on yourself – not on what others think.
Throughout his life, Rawat has traveled from country to country to spread his message of peace. He’s spoken everywhere from United Nations meetings to high-security prisons, and to everyone from world leaders to ex-guerilla fighters.
As part of the Prem Rawat Foundation, he founded the Peace Education Program, which helps people find their place in society by reconnecting them with their inner peace.
Once, Rawat was speaking to inmates in a prison in Pune, India, when one man came forward to ask him a question. The prisoner said that he was going to be released soon, and he had a big worry: What would people think of him on the outside?
The key message here is: Embrace what you know, and focus on yourself – not on what others think.
Other people’s judgment seemed to be a huge concern for the hundreds of prisoners Rawat spoke to that day. It’s a huge concern for many of us in our day-to-day lives as well.
Too often, we waste energy worrying about other people’s opinions of our work, our personality, or even the home we live in. It’s like we seek approval from other people to fill an empty hole in ourselves.
The thing is, no one can fill that emptiness for us. First and foremost, we must cherish who we are.
To do this, you need to “start with yourself.” That is, you should accept and harness the wonderful strengths and resources already inside you.
Next time you’re keeping yourself awake at night with worries about what your friends or colleagues think of you, consider these questions: Do I approve of myself? Do I like spending time with myself? Do I understand and appreciate myself?
This isn’t about being self-centered – it’s about being centered in you.
It’s not always easy to do. But if you stop focusing on other people’s judgment and instead concentrate on how much you approve of yourself, you’ll reduce the noise coming from other people’s opinions, needs, and wants.
When you feel centered, the chatter of the outside world slips into insignificance. And you discover that the seeds of clarity, joy, serenity, and love are already inside you – just waiting to bloom.