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The Best We Could Do: An Illustrated Memoir Kindle & comiXology
A national bestseller and American Book Award winner, The Best We Could Do is an intimate and poignant graphic novel portraying one family’s journey from war-torn Vietnam from debut author Thi Bui.
In what Pulitzer Prize-winning novelist Viet Thanh Nguyen calls “a book to break your heart and heal it,” The Best We Could Do brings to life Thi Bui’s journey of understanding and provides inspiration to all of those who search for a better future while longing for a simpler past.
This beautifully illustrated and emotional story is an evocative memoir exploring the anguish of immigration and the lasting effects that displacement has on a child and her family. Bui documents the story of her family’s daring escape after the fall of South Vietnam in the 1970s, and the difficulties they faced building new lives for themselves.
At the heart of Bui’s story is a universal struggle: While adjusting to life as a first-time mother, she ultimately discovers what it means to be a parent—the sacrifices, the unnoticed gestures, and the depths of unspoken love. Despite how impossible it seems to take on the simultaneous roles of both parent and child, Bui pushes through. With haunting, poetic writing and breathtaking art, she examines the strength of family, the importance of identity, and the meaning of home.
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- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherAbrams ComicArts
- Publication dateMarch 7, 2017
- Reading age13 years and up
- Grade level8 and up
- File size817.4 MB
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"Be prepared to take your heart on an emotional roller-coaster journey with this thought-provoking account that completely satisfies as the story comes full circle. Highly recommended for teens and adults; an excellent choice for book clubs."―Library Journal online (starred review)
**STARRED REVIEW**
"In creatively telling a complicated story with the kind of feeling words alone rarely relay, The Best We Could Do does the very best that comics can do. This is a necessary, ever-timely story to share far and wide.”―Booklist, starred review
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"She does not spare her loved ones criticism or linger needlessly on their flaws. Likewise she refuses to flatten the twists and turns of their histories into neat, linear narratives. She embraces the whole of it… In this mélange of comedy and tragedy, family love and brokenness, she finds beauty."―Publishers Weekly (starred review)
**STARRED REVIEW**
“A moving, visually stimulating account of the author's personal story and an insightful look at the refugee experience, juxtaposed against Vietnam's turbulent history. “―Shelf Awareness, starred review
"A powerful and intimate look at the modern immigrant experience in America."―ICv2
“This bold, brutal book is the new calligraphy—an exquisite marriage of alphabet and imagery. Each sentence, each scene, and each story breaks down a country, a family, and a father. Then, frame by frame, with artistic vigor and monastic devotion, Thi Bui rebuilds a world in which guilt conquers grief and gratitude becomes not only a guide, but our new Deity. The Best We Could Do teaches us how to say no to fear and yes to truth.”―Fae Myenne Ng, author of Bone, a PEN/Faulkner Award Finalist, Steer Toward Rock, winner of the American Book Award
“Thi Bui’s book took my breath away. In a time of continuing refugee crisis, its message is necessary. The Best We Could Do expands one family’s personal story into a global, historic context, while condensing generations of war in Vietnam to intimate and human proportions. Beautiful and powerful.”―Craig Thompson, author and illustrator of Blankets and Habibi
Thi Bui’s stark, compelling memoir is about an ordinary family, but her story delivers the painful truth that most Vietnamese of the 20th century know in an utterly personal fashion—that history is found in the marrow of one’s bones, ready to be passed on through blood, through generations, through feelings. A book to break your heart and heal it.―Viet Thanh Nguyen, Pulitzer Prize winning novelist
“The Best We Could Do lands with the force of a blow and the strength of a mountain. Thi Bui offers an all-too-rarely-seen Vietnamese perspective on our war there, and a view of Vietnamese history that makes this book essential reading for anyone who seeks to go deep into this subject. At once intimate and sweeping in its portrayal of human experience, The Best We Could Do made me weep.”―Leela Corman, author and illustrator of Unterzakhn
“By knowing our parents’ story we come to a better understanding of who we are; by living our own version of their story, that understanding is even deeper and more illuminating. In The Best We Could Do, Thi’s exploration of becoming a mother in the shadow of her own parents’ history is Thi drawing her past to write her future. It’s a story that I—as a child turned parent myself—found emotional, introspective, and a cautionary tale of what we pass to our next generation.”―GB Tran, author and illustrator of Vietnamerica: A Family’s Journey
“Thi Bui’s The Best We Could Do is a nuanced, multilayered tribute to a family that has lost as much as it has gained. Bui interprets her family’s demons with generosity and compassion, and she is keen to understand how the roots of trauma and conflict can grow decades later, thousands of miles away. Infused with Vietnam’s tumultuous history, Bui’s memoir reflects her family’s experience against the larger context of war, poverty, and dislocation, and then pulls back, showing how these heavy matters affect life at home in the quieter days that follow. The Best We Could Do is a beautiful, affecting union of memoir and illustration.”―Cecily Wong, author of Diamond Head: A Novel
“With great mastery of writing and drawing, Thi Bui shows the consequences of war lasting from generation to generation. The Best We Could Do honors Vietnam the way Marjane Satrapi’s Persepolis honors Iran. And it’s fun to read too.”―Maxine Hong Kingston, author of The Fifth Book of Peace and I Love a Broad Margin to My Life
“Devastating and luminous.”―Tom Hart, author and illustrator of the #1 New York Times bestseller Rosalie Lightning: A Graphic Memoir
“The Best We Could Do is a story of massive, sweeping scale told through quiet moments of complex emotion and intimacy. Thi Bui paints the portrait of a single family across three generations, as many continents, and thousands of panels without one false stroke of the brush. Her penetrating examination of family and identity is at once unsentimental and deeply felt, familiar and unlike any other graphic novel you have read. Comics don't get much better than The Best We could Do.”―Jake Wyatt, author and illustrator of Necropolis and Ms. Marvel
“The Best We Could Do burns back the dead skin of public War memory. Underneath is the raw flesh of another kind of war story—of mothers and fathers, sons and daughters, brutally intimate and intimately brutal. This book is a must-read.”―Lawrence-Minh Bùi Davis, The Asian American Literary Review, curator for the Smithsonian Asian Pacific American Center
“…a cinematic epic that poignantly tracks several generations through immigration and emotional dislocation. At its best, this memoir feels not just created but also deeply lived.”―Michael Cavna, The Washington Post
"One of the most anticipated graphic memoirs of 2017 is debut author Thi Bui’s The Best We Could Do, an illustrated memoir about her family’s journey from South Vietnam in the 1970s, her experience of first-time motherhood, and how places really do shape one’s identity."―Bustle
"Bonus: The entire memoir is illustrated."―The Huffington Post
“Timely and poignant…” ―Entertainment Weekly
“When Bui began work on The Best We Could Do in 2005, she couldn’t have predicted the significance it would hold when it was released in 2017, but now that it’s here, it feels like one of the first great works of socially relevant comics art of the Trump era…Bui presents that saga in a way that is narratively intricate, intellectually fastidious, and visually stunning.“―Vulture
“Bui worked on the book for years, but it’s arrival feels urgent amid today’s travel bans and growing refugee crisis.” ―The Boston Globe
“Gorgeously illustrated… “ ―Teen Vogue
“It’s a deeply personal tale, but universal in so many ways, filled with familiar struggles and joys that so many of us will relate to. You need to read this book.”―PEN America
“Like Art Spiegelman’s masterpiece, “Maus,” Bui’s memoir elicits complex emotions from understated pen-and-ink drawings.”―The San Francisco Chronicle
“…a nuanced and heartfelt immigrant tale, brought to true life through beautiful and brilliant illustration. On top of that, it's an especially poignant read from the vantage point of 2017.” ―Refinery29
“The story, both deeply personal and historically illuminating, will devastate and inspire you on many levels.”―The Mary Sue
“Bui's minimalist approach ensures readers can't gloss over the harsh realities of her family's immigrant experience, but it also forces us to recognize the universal struggles and triumphs that all families experience. Fans of Marjane Satrapi’s Persepolis will not want to miss this incredibly relevant work.”―Bookpage
“This book is beautiful. It is personally meditative while also deeply informative, telling the history that lives in one family’s bones while spanning multiple nations, borders, and generations.”―Boing Boing
“…a crucial exploration of the refugee experience in this era of expressly unconstitutional efforts to halt immigration into the United States.”―Hyperallergic
“Thi Bui’s debut graphic novel — a memoir about her family’s immigration from Vietnam to the United States during the Vietnam War — had me weeping openly on the New York City subway."―The Cut
“Following in the footsteps of landmark graphic memoirs by Art Spiegelman, Alison Bechdel and Roz Chast, this powerful and essential book tells the story of the author’s family’s journey from Vietnam to the United States.“―Newsday
“….her story offers readers a particular insight into the life of a family fleeing violence and fear in a time of political upheaval—a reminder of the micro consequences of macro political actions.”―Paste Magazine
"It has all the hallmarks of a book that will be regarded as a pioneer in both form and content.” ―TruthDig
"In this graphic novel, every image looks like the characters are being gently blown away, or else in perfect stillness… It’s a touching memoir.” ―The Coveteur
“Beautiful in both form and content...”―The Awl
“The Best We Could Do is a moving memoir and corrective to Trump-era xenophobia.”―The Comics Bulletin
“…the storytelling of Thi Bui is very strong.”―ICv2
“…haunting writing and breathtaking art…”―Gambit Weekly
"Thematically rich and complex, melding together grief and hope, the personal and the political, the familial and the national, The Best We Could Do is an important, wise, and loving book.” ―The Comics Journal
"The Best We Could Do is a deeply American story, tapping into the national myth, however illusory, of freedom in new beginnings.”―Hyphen Magazine
“The memoir is a detailed family history and an accurate representation of Vietnamese people during the Vietnam war and the realities of finding a better life and a new land.”
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- ASIN : B01MF8LTP4
- Publisher : Abrams ComicArts
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- Publication date : March 7, 2017
- Language : English
- File size : 817.4 MB
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- Print length : 336 pages
- ISBN-13 : 978-1613129302
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- Grade level : 8 and up
- Lexile measure : GN600L
- Part of Series : The Best We Could Do
- Reading age : 13 years and up
- Best Sellers Rank: #219,511 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
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Customers praise the memoir's reflective storytelling and stunning illustrations, with one noting how the author "literally 'paints a picture' of the narrative." Moreover, the book effectively conveys the Vietnamese refugee experience and rich history, with one review highlighting how it helps readers understand Vietnamese culture. Additionally, customers find the pacing moving and appreciate its educational value. However, the readability receives mixed feedback, with several customers noting it's difficult to read on a Kindle device.
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Customers praise the memoir's quality, describing it as astounding and enlightening, with a reflective narrative woven throughout.
"...The story of her family's life is so enlightening, although heart breaking...." Read more
"...Many compliments to the author for sharing such a great story of her life and her family." Read more
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Customers appreciate the illustrations in the book, describing them as beautiful and stunning, with one customer noting the artist's wonderful job of "painting a picture."
"...What Bui so beautifully captures in this memoir is the why behind how her parents were in raising her...." Read more
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"...I have never cared much for illustrated books but this was done beautifully. The illustrations are so creative...." Read more
"...the art, while not as realistic at times, was still complex, giving a realistic vibe while presenting it in a simplified form...." Read more
Customers find the book relatable and deeply touching, particularly appreciating its rich telling of the Vietnamese refugee experience and its reflective narrative in explaining family relationships.
"...This book taught me empathy and forgiveness at a time in my life where I struggled to have it...." Read more
"...The author's experience as a daughter, sister and mother is incredibly relatable. I highly recommend." Read more
"...It is written with so much love and understanding by the author for her parents as she learns of their individual backgrounds of what took place..." Read more
"...This book hit really close to home. Reading about the Vietnamese experience in the form of a comic book strips the experience down to its bare roots...." Read more
Customers appreciate how the book brings home the rich history and provides detailed family stories, making it educational and multigenerational in nature.
"...I especially found the art, while not as realistic at times, was still complex, giving a realistic vibe while presenting it in a simplified form...." Read more
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"...what I can do to improve those relationship, reading this book helped me open my eyes and understand a little better the lives of my own parents...." Read more
Customers appreciate how the book helps people understand Vietnamese history and teaches about the Vietnam War, with one customer noting it captures the everyday struggles of war.
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- Reviewed in the United States on May 20, 2019Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseFull review on nguyentoread.com
The Best We Could Do is Thi Bui's graphic memoir. Thi was born in Vietnam three months before the Vietnam War reached what we consider to be the end of the war. She came to America with her family in 1978. Bui's memoir spans multiple generations. In learning of her mother's and father's pasts, we learn the history of their parents. We see the struggles and pains of two people from very different walks of life trying to live during a time of war and chaos. We see glimpses of the agony everyone in the middle of the Vietnam War faced. Those who were not directly involved on either side but were caught in the middle of larger powers at war. This memoir more closely details the lives of her parents leading up to them arriving in America and making their life there. I was unsure if this memoir would focus largely on the experience of being a Vietnamese immigrant in America. There were parts that showed how it was for Bui's parents in a country where tensions were still high after the Vietnam War, where discrimination largely due to that was overt, and where degrees were not recognized and people who had spent their lives working and creating careers for themselves were not qualified for most work and had to hurdle multiple challenges to learn a language and complete education all over again if they wanted to provide a better life for their children. What Bui so beautifully captures in this memoir is the why behind how her parents were in raising her. Although Bui was born in Vietnam she was young when her family arrived in America. So I think her experience is one that many first generation Vietnamese-American people of my generation can understand and sympathize with. The wanting to know why their parents are the way they are but unable to ask because many have parents, like Bui's mother, who reluctantly share their stories and don't allow their children that glimpse that could help them better understand. In the panel which was most poignant to me, Bui draws her father as he looks over her work that would become The Best We Could Do. He says "You know how it was for me. And why later I wouldn't be... normal."
- Reviewed in the United States on June 16, 2023Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseBeautifully written and illustrated. Although Thi Bui and I have astronomically different life experiences, I still found I could relate on a deeply personal level. This book taught me empathy and forgiveness at a time in my life where I struggled to have it. Bui nailed the complicated feelings and emotions that comes with confronting abuse, abusers (who happen to be your parents), and the painful impact of generational trauma on both the parent and child.
Highly recommend this book to anyone who is on a path of healing their own broken heart.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 1, 2023Format: KindleVerified PurchaseI was really impressed with this book. I have never cared much for illustrated books but this was done beautifully. The illustrations are so creative. The story of her family's life is so enlightening, although heart breaking. It is a reminder to those of us that have only experienced life in America, that we have it GOOD! The author's experience as a daughter, sister and mother is incredibly relatable. I highly recommend.
- Reviewed in the United States on June 17, 2024Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseI got this for my Ethnic Studies class and was eager to read a graphic novel and call it homework. While not as thoroughly covered as other material I studied in class this was still fascinating to sit down and read.
Thi Bui writes a memoir of her life from when she gave birth to her son. With memories of her labor as the first thing she then begins to question her mortality, via the life and times of those closest to her, specifically her family. Thi Bui had lived her life in a good home but via a strange series of incidents that make it less than ideal. In time she realizes that it’s her parents’ trauma via having endured what can truly be called even worse than less than ideal, outright abusive. But I guess that’s what happens when you live two decades of war. World War II, the Indochina War, and the Vietnam War. Nam Bui and Hang Troung endured life via war in a country that had endured ages of colonial rule, and fierce nationalistic movements, all the while trying to live their lives. But despite all the abuse they endured, whether from bad parents, a country at war, miscarriages, and doing their best to make it alive after the final war’s end as refugees to America. Truly living up to the adage of doing “The Best We Could,” so that their children would live a better life.
My class studied the Vietnamese/Indochina experience in our Ethnic Studies class, I’ve also read and watched a lot about the Vietnam War, and I have a great respect for the people who endured a cause that most Americans refuse to acknowledge. I especially found the art, while not as realistic at times, was still complex, giving a realistic vibe while presenting it in a simplified form. There was a lot of depth and range that came from the art, and it tells the story very well. Many compliments to the author for sharing such a great story of her life and her family.
- Reviewed in the United States on September 25, 2023Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseThis was just the right balance of graphics and literature for the price.
Being a Vietnamese American, I was on the lookout for historical graphic novels and there are very few, but this one was just right. It is well written and provided enough context for me to see her POV growing up.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 8, 2022Format: KindleVerified PurchaseThis is by far the best book I have read this year. It is written with so much love and understanding by the author for her parents as she learns of their individual backgrounds of what took place throughout their lives, the impact of how the turmoil of the country and their journey coming to America had on them. Through this, she comes to terms with who they are as her parents and she their daughter while embracing motherhood herself. I had some difficulty with this type of book but it may be me, however it didn't detract from the story enough to affect the rating.
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- Amazon CustomerReviewed in Australia on August 19, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant !
Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseRiveting reading. The illustrations complement the honest no-frills text beautifully. Well worth the read. I had the privilege of being the author’s Uber driver to the airport when she visited Perth . Chatting to her I learnt about this graphic novel she’d written over a 10 year labour of love, so I wanted to buy a copy to read. A wonderful and informative traumatic family history, excellent read!
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kathlingReviewed in France on December 22, 2018
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Format: PaperbackVerified Purchasereçu à temps et dans le même état que promis.
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David Reyes MoralesReviewed in Mexico on June 11, 2019
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- Marquis de la GraqueReviewed in Germany on December 23, 2024
5.0 out of 5 stars Deep, challenging, heartbreaking at times
Format: KindleVerified PurchaseI've read this as an e-book on my Note Air 3C.
This is a very special, very personal story. As far as I understood, it's the personal story of the author's family.
Even though it is a graphic novel and may sometimes look like a childs comics, and even there are children in this story, it is far from being for children. It is a story of a family in a war-ridden country called Viet Nam. I'm not american so Viet Nam isn't part of the history of my country, but because the US produces movies and other fiction about its war there and exports it to the rest of the world, I did have a picture in my mind about the country and the war. Now this book delivers a view of the people who actually lived and live there, but the fascinating thing is that it isn't written by someone who really grew up there. Instead, it's the viewpoint of a person who only has vague memories about the childhood in Viet Nam. Thi Bui is only 2 years older than me, so she clearly can't remember 1978 when her family made the escape from Viet Nam.
The book explains the backstory of her parents, beginning with their childhood and how they met, how they got their children, how the war and the communist terror that followed it, forced them to leave. That is the one side of this novel. The other is the persons they have become because of it, and the way they deal with it, and how their children live with them. A father who is traumatized and often alien, a mother who is very demanding. It's the story of how the author learns to understand why they are how they are.
All of this is presented in beautiful, simple, easy to understand pictures that look like images and have very little color. They look like sketches. Personally I loved them. Even on the E Ink tablet they looked terrific.
This book is about the difficult sides of live and mankind. War, torture, alienated families, abortion, racism, being a foreigner, having to adapt to a foreign culture, not knowing about your origins and so on. The terror of the communist regime is displayed in few simple sketches but blows away any romantic illusions you may have had about it on the previous pages (because the book DOES show how a small group of land owners and french invaders lived feudal lives while most of the rest had little to nothing).
It is a book that is worth reading and I enjoyed it, even though it is very tough to swallow at some points.
- winguReviewed in Canada on April 15, 2022
5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful book, beautifully illustrated
Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseRead this for a university English class. One of my favourites that semester!