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Still Life at Eighty: The Next Interesting Thing Paperback – February 28, 2023
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In her new memoir, Abigail Thomas ruminates on aging during the confines of COVID-19 with her trademark mix of humor and wisdom, including valuable, contemplative writing tips along the way.
As she approaches eighty, what she herself calls old age, Abigail Thomas accepts her new life, quieter than before, no driving, no dancing, mostly sitting in her chair in a sunny corner with three dogs for company—three dogs, vivid memories, bugs and birds and critters that she watches out her window. No one but this beloved, best-selling memoirist, could make so much over what might seem so little.
Memories fall like confetti, as time contracts, shoots forward, dawdles, and there she is, back in her twenties in Washington Square Park, drinking, having sex with strangers, falling in and out of love, believing in a better world. Whole decades evaporate as she sits in her chair, and a spider takes up residence beside her, who will become her boon companion for the next week.
Sometimes dread arrives, inhabits her body like a shadow and all she can do is write it away, pay attention to what catches her eye, sticks in her brain. Whatever keeps her in the moment.
Pull up a chair, have a cup of tea and enter Abigail Thomas's funny, mesmerizing, generous world.
- Print length196 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherGolden Notebook Press
- Publication dateFebruary 28, 2023
- Dimensions6 x 0.75 x 9 inches
- ISBN-100967554128
- ISBN-13978-0967554129
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"I want to grow old the way Abigail Thomas is growing old—with grace and with, humor and honest, dogs and dear friends."—Laurie Hertzel Minneapolis Star Tribune)
"I would follow Abigail Thomas on any journey she ever takes. The arrival of a new book from this master is always a cause for celebration, because I know right away that I'm about to learn something important about the art of writing and the art of living, both. I come to her books as though to a feast, and leave fulfilled and transformed."—Elizabeth Gilbert
"Abigail Thomas is the Emily Dickinson of memoirists, and so much of this book's wisdom is between the lines and in the white spaces. It may only take you two days to read, but the impact will stay with you for a long, long time. Abigail Thomas fills memory with living breath."—Stephen King
"It's so very rare for a memoir to tell the naked truth about aging--its terrors and its treasures, its indignities and its mysteries. Who else but Abigail Thomas to lift the veil and show us how she is navigating her eighties. Here she is, sitting still in her chair, traveling on a river that flows both ways--backwards slowly on the tides of memory, forward at a fast clip onward toward the open ocean. And sometimes, because of friends, because of dogs, because of children and home, writing and a wisteria vine, time stands still, and life is life, Abigail is Abigail, and once again we get to marvel with her, wonder with her, laugh and cry and rage with her. Thank you, Abigail, for the potent words to get us all through."—Elizabeth Lesser
About the Author
Abigail Thomas worked as both a book editor and book agent before writing her own first collection of short stories, Getting Over Tom. Her second and third books An Actual Life, and Herb’s Pajamas, were works of fiction. Thomas’ memoir, A Three Dog Life, was named one of the best books of 2006 by The Los Angeles Times and The Washington Post, and received the 2006 Inspirational Memoir Award given by Books for A Better Life. She is also author of the memoirs Safekeeping, Thinking About Memoir and What Comes Next and How to Like It. In her new book, Still Life at 80, Thomas ruminates on aging during the confines of COVID-19 with her trademark mix of humor and wisdom, including valuable, contemplative writing tips along the way. She lives in Woodstock, New York.
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- Publisher : Golden Notebook Press
- Publication date : February 28, 2023
- Language : English
- Print length : 196 pages
- ISBN-10 : 0967554128
- ISBN-13 : 978-0967554129
- Item Weight : 2.31 pounds
- Dimensions : 6 x 0.75 x 9 inches
- Best Sellers Rank: #762,519 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
- #322 in Women's Biographies
- #960 in Memoirs (Books)
- #1,593 in Grief & Bereavement
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About the author

Abigail Thomas, the daughter of renowned science writer Lewis Thomas (The Lives of a Cell), is the mother of four children and the grandmother of twelve. Her academic education stopped when, pregnant with her oldest daughter, she was asked to leave Bryn Mawr during her first year. She’s lived most of her life on Manhattan’s Upper West Side, and was for a time a book editor and for another time a book agent. Then she started writing for publication. Her first three books “Getting Over Tom,” “An Actual Life,” and “Herb’s Pajamas” were works of fiction. Her memoir, “A Three Dog Life,” was named one of the best books of 2006 by the Los Angeles Times and the Washington Post. It won the 2006 Inspirational Memoir Award given by Books for A Better Life. She is also author of “Safekeeping,” a memoir, and “Thinking About Memoir.” Her new book "What Comes Next and How to Like It" will be published by Scribner on March 24, 2014.
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Customers find this memoir to be a wonderful read that is utterly honest and hilariously irreverent. They appreciate the writer's style, with one customer noting it's written in small installments, and many find it heartwarming and poignant. The book receives positive feedback for its approach to aging, with one customer specifically recommending it for those over 70. The pacing receives mixed reactions from customers.
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Customers find the book to be a wonderful and terrific memoir, with one customer noting it is very readable in small installments.
"Good lamp table book—and good for aspiring writers of any age but particular for seniors." Read more
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"...It was a short read so I didn't have to skim it till the very end. I give her a Two stars mostly because of her love of dogs and critters!!" Read more
Customers appreciate the author's writing style, with one customer noting the clarity with which memories are addressed, though some find the content rambling.
"...So not eighty. This is a collection of flash memoir – some chapters are a mere paragraph, others three pages long; the threads of a life..." Read more
"...She has inspired me to writer and to welcome this introspective time in my life as I have just turned 66...." Read more
"...What a treat to have another amazing memoir from a writer who can so perfectly capture a moment and turn it into a piece of writing that you just..." Read more
"...It’s an easy read, from the heart. I found myself thinking “yes! I know exactly what she is talking about!”..." Read more
Customers find the memoir heartwarming and wonderfully poignant, with one customer highlighting its crisp stories and another noting its profound sense of grace.
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"...to have another amazing memoir from a writer who can so perfectly capture a moment and turn it into a piece of writing that you just want to melt..." Read more
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"...written a raw, honest, hilarious, insightful, poignant, tragic, beautiful memoir. I want her to live forever, and keep writing about it...." Read more
Customers find the book hilarious and irreverent, with one customer noting that the words are poetic.
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Customers appreciate the book's honesty.
"...paragraphs, what you will find, however, will be transparency and authenticity – you’ll find a woman who has come to terms with being referred to as..." Read more
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"Abigail Thomas has once again written a raw, honest, hilarious, insightful, poignant, tragic, beautiful memoir...." Read more
"...No one is this unpretentious, unapologetic, irreverent, and utterly honest about what it means to be alive and to age in a body...." Read more
Customers appreciate the book's approach to aging, describing it as honest and welcoming humanness, with one customer specifically recommending it for those over 70.
"...situations presented ! It makes you think about aging and real situations that shall happen or perhaps not, but be prepared" Read more
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"Highly recommend to anyone over 70. Many laughs, a few tears." Read more
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Customers have mixed opinions about the pacing of the book, with some finding it revealing and getting right to the point, while others describe it as boring to read.
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- Reviewed in the United States on June 4, 2025Good lamp table book—and good for aspiring writers of any age but particular for seniors.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 17, 2025Format: KindleVerified PurchaseThis book was like spending time with myself, my family, my friends, the natural world, rainy days, pets, lovers, and life. Abigail Thomas is a treasure, and I wish great joy for her.
- Reviewed in the United States on May 2, 2023Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseIt’s rare that an author invites us to enter the sacristy of her mind as unapologetically as Abigail Thomas. After two short story collections, one novel, and four works of nonfiction, including the memoirs Safekeeping: A Three Dog life; What Comes Next and How to Like It; and Thinking About Memoir, Thomas has primed us to embrace her unconventional, quirky, and irreverent lifestyle.
Thomas’s newest memoir, Still Life at Eighty; The Next Interesting Thing, is a fresh take on what it means to age in a society that embraces youth. For Abigail Thomas, eighty is letting go – not of life, but of all the expectations with which life burdens us. Throwing out her makeup, taking a nap in the middle of the day, and not feeling guilty about something or everything, Thomas has eighty down. Even during a pandemic. Even at her annual check up when her doctor asks her to count backward by sevens. Even when her beloved dog dies. And despite youthfulness that smacks her in the face – she’s relieved, she writes, when she sees a young woman on the street with her whole life in front of her – relieved because her first thought is thank God that isn’t me.
Thomas muses about small things. The pandemic has forced her indoors, away from people. She focuses on a one-winged wasp, the squirrels burying the carrots she threw out for them yesterday, she learns how to spatchcock a chicken and spatchcocks chicken three days in a row, never eating the chicken, but delights to learn the root of the term from her American Heritage Dictionary of Indo-European Roots, where she also learns the root for death – she thinks it means to flow – but then she realizes she is looking at the wrong reference, dead is dead, she says.
On her eightieth birthday, Thomas gets a tattoo. For her sixtieth birthday, she had a salamander tattooed on her right arm, so this one will go on her left, just the initials FTS, because the salamander hurt too much. Because we’re on the radio, I’ll leave the interpretation up to your imagination. Just know, that it’s trademark Abigail Thomas – irreverent, outrageous, unexpected. So not eighty.
This is a collection of flash memoir – some chapters are a mere paragraph, others three pages long; the threads of a life all woven together with Thomas’s wit and wisdom. You won’t find the secret of life buried here among the sentences and paragraphs, what you will find, however, will be transparency and authenticity – you’ll find a woman who has come to terms with being referred to as elderly … because, frankly, Abigail Thomas’s eighty is nothing you’ve experienced before.
- Reviewed in the United States on April 3, 2025Format: KindleVerified PurchaseNot what I expected…more of a diary of what goes through an 80 year olds mind on a daily basis…with bizarre attractions to bugs, etc.
- Reviewed in the United States on August 27, 2024Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseI must love her clear, crisp stories of her life. She has made me think about my life and not having a mother figure to look up to, she has filled that void for me.
I will be waiting by my front door for Amazon tomorrow to get the book. And I will dive in once I tuck myself in bed with my two dogs.
She has inspired me to writer and to welcome this introspective time in my life as I have just turned 66.
I was mired in grief the past three years having lost two younger siblings to tragic ends and some how I missed knowing she had written this book.
My next review will be of the book itself.
- Reviewed in the United States on March 24, 2025If I were musical I would play a very soft boring song for a long time. I expected more actual life experiences, not bugs and silliness. I considered this a poor excuse for a reason to write a book about the next interesting thing. I wanted to read about inspirational accomplishments: losing weight or running a marathon, not an overweight cane carrying bore. I wanted to love this book and pass it on to other friends my age. Instead I passed it on to the trashcan where it belonged.
- Reviewed in the United States on February 28, 2023Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseAs a long time fan of Abigail Thomas' writing, I pre-ordered "Still Life at 80" as soon as I heard about it. What a treat to have another amazing memoir from a writer who can so perfectly capture a moment and turn it into a piece of writing that you just want to melt into.
Thomas' chapters on aging and death are like deep breathing exercises -- she has a way of inviting you into her day, offering up whimsical details only to side-swipe you with such a heartbreaking thought you want to reach out to her and share your own stories. Or she does just the opposite, taking your from heartbreak to laughter without the slightest warning of what's to come.
It is especially satisfying to read someone who has reached a point in her life with so much wisdom ... and the ability to look back at it all with a clear eye, giving herself -- and by extension the reader -- a profound sense of grace.
Reading Abigail Thomas has always been a bit like going to church for me (or, at least, what I wish church had been like when I still attended services) and this memoir is the Christmas or Easter version of mass. If you loved her previous memoirs, you are going to love this one just as much or more. If you've never read Abigail Thomas, I am so very jealous you'll get to experience her work for the first time.
- Reviewed in the United States on January 18, 2025This is a lovely book that is completely honest without the silliness but it will make you smile. I am not 80 but I recommend it for anyone especially those over 55. It’s an easy read, from the heart. I found myself thinking “yes! I know exactly what she is talking about!” It helps to know you are not alone in this process of aging.
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- Sherri DavisReviewed in Canada on January 5, 2025
5.0 out of 5 stars Loved it!
Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseA beautiful and honest memoir.
- KnitladyReviewed in Canada on November 4, 2024
1.0 out of 5 stars Book review
Format: PaperbackVerified PurchaseNot very interesting- writing style didn’t appeal.