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240 pages, Paperback
Published November 1, 1989
Men who are not equal to good fatherhood under such conditions will have no chance to become fathers, and will die with general pity instead of living with general condemnation.In regards to her short stories outside of The Yellow Wallpaper, the worth lies in her subversion of the canon of female characters who always do a certain thing a certain way that fits exactly with their flighty/jealous/nervous/weakened/kittenish/obtuse/male worshipping/etc etc etc aspects which, of course, are bullshit. The appeal of Gilman is how easily she makes the contrast, an ease that, similar to the Bechdel test, would lend itself well to progress if people stopped pretending conscious gynephobia was the only indicator of misogyny or that the canon was anything but really old made up stuff whose modification will not indeed, as protested by many a fanboy, cause the end of the world. Not the prettiest prose or craftiest of structuring and all that jazz, but the most impressive of linguistic fireworks won't rid the world of rape culture.
A family is a crude aggregate of persons of different ages, sizes, sexes, and temperaments, held together by sex-ties and economic necessity; and the affection which should exist between the members of a family is not increased in the least by the economic pressure, rather it is lessened.Condemns the patriarchy while embracing patriarchal methods of reasoning, confuses personal gender with socially constructed ideologies in efforts to "solve" everything, half-heartedly wags a finger at capitalism and individualistic culture without acknowledging personal privilege, backhand compliments socialism and collectivist culture through Orientalist thinking and idealization of "motherhood", dangerously ignorant on matters of abused/Chinese/indigenous/any woman whose category she does not share, etc, etc. Still worth reading for when she hits the nail on the head in ways reminiscent of de Beauvoir, leastwise to me and my methods of evaluation. You may, of course, refuse to read her due to my criticisms. Just make sure you apply such choosing to all the white men running around the canonical mainstream who don't even have the advantage of being a woman to lend them some instinctive paradigm shifts.